Military life is not always easy. It does come with some benefits, but it also comes with its own share of downsides. One of those potential downsides is having to move, often frequently. If you've just found out that your family will have to relocate, don't panic. As long as you can follow a few simple tips, you can make it through this stressful but necessary part of military life.
Start Planning Immediately
The second you find out that a move is in your future, even if you're not sure of exact dates or locations just yet, start planning. Military service often has people moving very quickly. In fact, even when projected dates are given, you will often find yourself actually moving sooner or later than planned.
Since so much is often up in the air with a military move, plan as much as you can as soon as you can. Start looking at moving companies, boxing up the items you don't use every day, and doing anything you can, even without all the details in place. These small steps can ultimately make a big difference when it comes to making your move more manageable and less overwhelming.
Even if you only have a little bit done when crunch time comes, you'll find that's much better than having nothing done.
Put All Your Important Documents in One Place
Military families often put so much focus on packing their belongings that they forget to put aside the important things: paperwork that will be necessary for them as they navigate their move. To avoid making this mistake, grab a folder or envelope and put in any and all paperwork you will need as you cancel current leases, make living arrangements in your new location, and go about general moving preparations.
Some common paperwork you will likely need to have on hand includes:
- Lease documents (if applicable)
- A copy of your military orders
- Social security cards for all family members
- Passports (if applicable)
- Birth certificates for all family members
- School records
- Immunization and medical records
Enlist Help and Support, Personal and Professional
Finally, as difficult as it may be, tell your family once you find out you are moving. This includes any children in your family who might take the news hard.
Telling others early on will reduce the risk of hurt feelings and will ensure you have all the support and help you need from family and friends as you prepare and plan for your move.
Additionally, consider enlisting some professional help with your move as well. Your family and friends can only do so much, and there are some great military relocation services out there that specialize in helping military families with their moves. They can help you to find a new home in a safe area quickly and can also answer questions you may have about your new town.
The more help you have on your side, the more smoothly your move is likely to go.
Of course, moving is never easy, whether you're in the military or not. But, if you follow these simple tips and enlist some good help, it can be a whole lot less difficult.
